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WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE SCARIEST PART ABOUT BEING SEXUALLY ASSAULTED?
posted by Tay @ Tuesday, July 11, 2006
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the aftermath(s) of rape.
yup. I agree with you buddy...
In my case, what's worse is when you are intimate with your partner and those fucking flashbacks come back all of sudden, making you feel like shit, turning the beautiful sexual act with the person you love into a nightmare...cuz you can't stop thinking about what happend to you before...It's not like I compare my Boyfriend with my rapists but, damn, it hurts when you remember that fucking stuff and you feel unable to continue what you were doing. I feel depressed because of that. I try so hard to forget everything...but even 10 years have passed...the scar still fresh.
I THINK THE SCARIEST PART IS HAVING TO DEAL WITH THE MEMORY FOR YOUR WHOLE LIFE AND NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT
the scariest thing for me was not remembering most of it, and then not having any closure, with the guys not being sent to jail where the belong, but while it was going on the scariest thing was not knowing if the were going to harm me any worse then what they were doing, and not knowing when it was going to end.
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The scariest part about being sexually assaulted is knowing that even if you do decide to tell someone they might think that you are lying. another scary part about being sexually assaulted is that it could have been a person who is close to you that sexually assaulted you.
All of it. There is no part of a sexual assault that is not psychologically, emotionally and physically horrific.
Being powerless.
The fact that it could happen anywhere, at any time, to anyone: man, woman, or child.
(There are some sick and dangerous people out there. Try your best to avoid them!)
The scariest part of being sexually assaulted is not being able to tell anyone because you have this deep feeling that no one will believe you. But you should know there will always be someone there to listen to you.
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I was sexually abused from the ages of 7-10. I didn't tell anyone until I was 13 years old. I had to face my attacker in court. Although he was not found guilty, it was a huge relief to know he had to spend some time in jail and know that he couldn't get away with it forever. People did believe me and it made me feel so much better.
the flash backs are bad, but it kills me to know my predator is still out there running around possibly, most likely, preying on other kids
and I have to be satisfied that okay I've reported and helped the police all I can and there is nothing else I can possibly due
The scariest thing for me is never knowing when something is going to trigger a flashback, when I will, all of a sudden, be trapped in a memory of when I was being raped, no matter where I am or what I am doing.
It's hard to focus and it's really scary because nobody understands.
for me the scariest part is is not remembering most of it. all i really remember is not being able to move or scream. not having a chance to even fight him off.
I think the scariest part is not knowing what to do next and feeling all alone.
I think the scariest part is being violated by someone else and knowing that it might be a burden you'll have for our entire life.
To me the scariest part is speaking up and addmitting to yourself and others that it did happen. Somethimes is easy to just put it in the back of your mind and try to live life without it but truth is it never goes away. Even leaving a anonymous entry like this one is hard.
I THINK THE SCARIEST THING ABOUT BEING SEXUALY ASSAULTED IS AFTER. AFTER BEING SSEXUALLY ASSUALTED YOU MIGHT BE SO OVERWHELMED BY WHAT JUST HAPPPENED TO YOU, YOU MIGHT JUST SHUT DOWN AND NOT WANT TO GO AND GET A RAPE KIT DONE OR YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT. ANOTHER SCARY THING AFTER BEING SEXUALLY ASSUALTED IS THE MEMORIES. THE MEMORIES MIGHT BE FOREVER WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT.AND I BELIEVE WITH THOSE MEMORIES COME WITH BEING PARANIOD. ALWAYS THINKING SOMEONE IS OUT TO GET YOU OR WHAT HAVE YOU.
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