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posted by Tay @ Wednesday, April 05, 2006
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I CAN'T PUT MYSELF IN ANY OTHER PERSON'S SHOES BUT MYSELF AND I KNOW THAT THIS SHIT IS HARD, DEALING WITH BEING RAPE AND GOING TO THE COPS, BEING JUDGE. FOR WHAT WHY SHOULD YOU JUDGE ME IF I WAS THE ONE THAT BECAME ABUSED. WELL I HATE EVERYONE THAT THINKS IT WAS MY FAULT, NO LITTLE CHILD SHOULD HAVE TO GO THROUGH SOME MAN THAT IS 30-SOMETHING TRYING TO PUT HIS DICK IN YOUR MOUTH, THAT AINT APART OF NO DAMN CHILDHOOD. WHY SHOULD SOME GUY IN HIS 20s BE DARING A CHILD THAT SHE CAN'T RIDE A DICK? WHY SHOULD SOME LAME TEENAGER GUY WHO CAN'T GET GIRLS TRY TO MAKE AN EIGHT YEAR OLD FEEL ON HIS DICK WHILE HE IS RUBBING HIS HANDS ON HER CHEST? DID I DESERVE THAT
Well I would not want to every be placed in such a position because I don't know what I'll do. I'll feel violated, damaged a friend of mine was raped and the part the was really hurtful was that it wasn't by strangers it was by boys she knew saw everyday and I think one of them was her boyfriend. They left the community for a long while nobody knowing where they went and no justice could've been done at the time to. The boys all said she asked for it and because people placed as an easy girl nobody really believed her. It was very painful it wasn't be but I felt as if it was.
You're right. No child should ever have to go through that. And when people make you feel like it's somehow your fault, it just victimizes you all over again. There's no simple answer to all that you've said. Every situation you mentioned is a horrible violation of not only a human being, but of a child...And no, you did not deserve it. I hope when you ask that question, you already know or you eventually will know, that you did not and do not deserve it.
Something else I wanted to say is this: Sexual assault is often not just a one time thing perpetrated by one single person. Sometimes you can be abused as a child and then get older and find yourself in another situation getting sexually assaulted all over again. You have to realize that doesn't make it your fault. Once you've experienced sexual assault, a lot of people go through that process of blaming themselves and feeling guilty. Try to realize that sometimes you seem to lose control of your body...but that doesn't mean it's your fault... I hope that makes sense. If it doesn't let me know.
my heart goes out to anyone (man, woman, or child) whos had to experience any kind of physical abuse/assault, especially sexual. my mom went thru it a few times and i dont know how she deals. she has a slight mental retardation and i kno men pick up on that and she gets taken advantage of a lot. hell, i felt discusted and violated once when a mans crotch was rubbin against my butt on a crowded train during rush hr, so i can only imagine what sexual assault is like and dont want to. my heart and prayers go out to those who are strong enough to live thru and after such ordeals, and even more-so to those who arent...
I was sexual assualted last year my a designer by the name of Horace Carter most people know him as Gold Teeth. He has a shop located on Flatbush by Church Ave. When I was in College I hired him as a designer for my fashion show. I also was a model for him in the past shows he put on. I went to his place of bussiness which is also his residence and I tried on a outfit, as I undressed he came in behind me and tried to rape me. I am telling you this so you can let other young women know not to trust him. There is a Sex Crimes division located in Brooklyn on Washington ave you can have access to public records, especially Sex Offenders. I had no idea he had prior convictions so it goes to show you never know who people really are. Look it up for yourself. He does alot of College Fashion Shows, Videos and shows through-out Brooklyn. I went to trial but of course he got off with nothing, even though he has prior convictins.... Our society is sad but it is real. Dont just take my word for it, look it up...
First off I would like to say that rape or sexual assault is something that a child
should not have to go through. It Just ruins a child's experience of growing up. The problem is that when a child is sexually assaulted they may not know that what is happening to them is wrong and when they do find out that it is wrong they do not want to tell any one about what happened because they are scared that they might be judged and they might be looked at as liars so they just keep everything bottled in.
it happened to me when i was 6yrs old...n itr scarred me for life...
Having to deal with any sort of sexual abuse or abuse in general is extremely hard to cope with. It always makes me wonder, how can one be so evil as to put another through such an excrutiating time? I feel as though the victimizer must be someone who is clearly insane in order to commit such horrible acts. The victim themselves should never be blamed, it is not their fault for being who they are at whatever time or place.
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